On Being an Author and a Book Reviewer (Why my Book Review Process is Changing)


So, if you’re in the reading and writing social media space, I’m sure you’ve heard the ongoing conversation about authors in readers’ spaces and vice versa. In case you haven’t, I’ll sum it up for you.

The reading community at large seems to feel that authors should not be in Book Bloggers’, Bookstagrammers, Booktok’ers, DMs, comments, etc. so that readers can feel free and safe to be honest about their opinions in their book reviews and book discussions.

Similarly, many authors request that Book Bloggers’, Bookstagrammers, and Booktok’ers do not tag them in book reviews that contain criticism, so they can choose not to read book reviews to preserve the balance of their peace of mind.

In a similar vein, there is also continual discourse about what counts as a “positive review.” Some say that a 5-star review on Amazon is standard. Some say that Goodreads defines a 3-star review as “I liked it.” Some say that a 5-star review can still be negative depending on what the reviews say. Some say if you DNF (do not finish) a book, that’s a one star, while some say that means you shouldn’t rate it all. Some say authors shouldn’t read reviews at all because reviews are for readers, while others complain when the author doesn’t interact with their posted review.

I could go on. Obviously, the range of opinions is limitless, and everyone is more than free to have their own.

Where it gets tricky for me is that I’m both an author and a book reviewer.

Personally, as an indie author, I’ve always been thrilled when a reader takes the time to read, rate, and/or review my books. So, I’ve always meant it or thought of it as a positive contribution when I read, rate, and review other authors’ books. As it became increasingly apparent that “three stars” were largely considered negative instead of Goodreads’ “I liked it,” I stopped posting three stars, and erased my Goodreads ratings of those books.

Now, the convention seems to be leaning toward the fact that four stars are also considered unacceptable from one author to another.

To be super clear, I am always incredibly thrilled to get 4 and 5 star reviews of my own books. In fact, the first review I ever received on my debut novel was a glowing 4-star that I absolute treasure. Heck, I will *happily* take your honest three star as well. On the other hand, I do feel the increasing pressure not to leave 4 star reviews, and have even received criticism for leaving a 4.5 (rounded to 5) rating.

So, from here on out, while I’ll still post reviews of books that I enjoyed, I will only put a star rating for 5-star books (And 6 stars, when a book truly stands out) and ARCs (advance review copies), in which case, I feel obligated to leave a star rating. I have all kinds of mixed feelings on this, especially since, and I do want to reiterate this, I’m always so incredibly grateful when readers leave ratings/reviews with their honest opinions.

However, I also would truly not want to (even unintentionally) hurt another author.

So, my reviews will remain honest, but if you do not see a star rating on many of my reviews anymore, this is why. As I DNF books very frequently on my search for 5 and 6-star books, if I finished it and it doesn’t have a star rating, you can safely assume it’s somewhere in the 4-star range.

Hopefully, my mini-reviews will continue to lead you and other readers to good books, and as always, thanks for reading!

Legit, just over here trying to be helpful to both authors and readers.

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Audiobook Review – Sounds Like Love


This felt like a sweet, fun summer romance book, but something about the pacing felt a little off to me. I think I was expecting more development from the main characters, and the end felt like it came too quickly and didn’t quite have the punch I was expecting. But the narration was solid, and the concept was fun, so I’d definitely recommend to anyone looking for a sweet romance with a lower spice level, especially one with a song-writer and a ex-boy-band member. Heads up though, there are deeper themes as the MC processes her mom’s dementia.

⭐⭐⭐⭐¼

I mean, who doesn’t love a cute summer romance.

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Audiobook Review – Heart the Lover


I’ve been picking audiobooks randomly to listen to off of Libby without any prior knowledge of them, so this is definitely not my usual read, but, dang, it ensnared me. This book read like an echo of some of my own college experiences and just hits hard in such a poignant way, moving quickly and taking me along with it for the whole heartbreaking ride. There were some plot points that didn’t fit as well for me, and the ending didn’t have as much impact on me as I thought it would, but the writing style was lovely and flowing and the characters felt so utterly real. Definitely makes me want to read more outside my comfort zone.

I think I originally said 4.5, but I’m still thinking about this one, so I’m upping it to 5.

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Honestly, sometimes you don’t even know the type of book you need to read next.

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Audiobook Review – A Sorceress Comes to Call


I love T. Kingfisher’s voice, but this one didn’t make the top three for me on her list. It’s a solid read with great narration, but the pacing was a little on the slower side, and I think I was hoping for more character development by the end. I can’t shake the feeling it didn’t quite pack as much punch as it could have. Recommend for readers looking for a solid fairy-tale retelling in class fairy-tale setting.

⭐⭐⭐⭐

Still a huge T. Kingfisher fan and have more of her books on my TBR!

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Audiobook Review – Simultaneous


This was an interesting, fast-paced read. I liked the premise and the characters, but I had the distinct feeling it read like a screenplay adapted quickly into a novel. Though everything was easy to visualize, I feel like the characters and their relationships didn’t quite have the depth that I’m used to. And although it was a fun ride and sets up for a sequel, at the end, I just found myself not really satisfied.

At the 90% mark, I felt like I should be approaching the halfway mark rather than the end, and at the end, I feel like the characters’ development hadn’t made the significant strides I would’ve expected. I also felt like the audiobook narration read a little mechanically so I’m not sure how that affected my experience either. But if you’re looking for a plot-driven, fast-paced thriller with a fantastical edge, this might be for you!

⭐⭐⭐⭐

Kept me turning pages, and I think I’d def still recommend it to sci-fi fans. I’m def curious to see what my husband thinks of it.

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Audiobook Review – The Goddess Games


This was such a fun audiobook listen! It reminded me of a sci-fi version of The Selection. Though the world here firmly carries us into the far future with spaceships and a prince from another planet, the tech and language come off as very accessible with the narrative emphasis on The-Bachelor-style competition and the relationships between the characters. Though it doesn’t read as a stand-alone, the story is fast-paced and ends on a satisfying note. Recommended for fans of the Selection who want to travel to the stars. Thanks to the author for the audiobook copy, and you can grab your own here!

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I’m always here for some gameshow dating shenanigans.

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Audiobook Review – Warrior, Princess, Assassin


I haven’t finished an unputdownable book in a while so this was so refreshing. I’ve never read a why-choose romance, but the voices & relationships of the characters felt so real, and the background of political intrigue was fantastically woven. I honestly wish we had picked this one for our romantasy book club, but I’ll definitely be recommending it to all of them! Can’t wait for the sequel!

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The sequel comes out this fall and I’m pumped for it!

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Audiobook Review – Listen for the Lie


Loved this read! The voice was fun, the tension was tight throughout, there’s a seed of romance, the narration was amazing, and I honestly didn’t know who did it until the end. Honestly this may be my favorite read of the year so far, and I highly recommend for anyone looking for a fast-paced whodunnit!

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

This was so fun! Definitely a good find!

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Audiobook Review – And Tango Makes Three


My 7-year-old and 9-year-old were having a discussion about why books are banned, so we listened to this audiobook (which is delightfully narrated by Neil Patrick Harris), and which is also banned in an adjacent county. I’d actually read it to them when they were younger and we found it on their daycare shelf, but they don’t remember.

It’s an adorable, charming book with sweet pictures that they enjoyed when they were young.
As older children, discussing why someone would want to ban this book (and others) was invaluable. Highly recommend.

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And just in case it needs to be explicitly said, our family stands passionately against book banning.

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Book Review – The Phantom Tollbooth


I read this aloud to my 7-year-old and 9-year-old on our vacation, and they both said they “loved it.” (The highest praise on their 3-star scale.) I will admit the sheer number of clever turn of phrases in this book is wild, and they enjoyed the silliness of Milo’s wacky adventure. Though the tension isn’t as high as in some of the other books we’ve read together, they were both still asking for more chapters each night. I imagine a watch of the movie is in our future and highly recommend for a read aloud with elementary schoolers.

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Credit where credit is do. This one is *chef’s kiss.*

Thanks for reading!